Ok bud, when you have dcc running and open FTP, in front of you should see one panel on the left with "commander" in a tab above it, this is where you should see the "tmp" folder where you want o place the ipk file. Double click on the tmp folder and then you should see the contents of it. On the right hand side you have another panel with a drop down menu above it, in here you will see the contents of whichever directory you want to open on your pc or lappy. Using the dropdown menu select "desktop" the panel will now show whatever you have on your desktop, so if you have placed the ipk file on your desktop you should see it here... if you can click on it and then use the arrow button pointing towards the left panel to transfer it across to this location. Once that is done follow the rest of the instructions posted by masterG.